meow! have been busy the past week and getting ready for my lasik surgery. i went for the pre-assessment today and quote un-quote my opthamolagist, "your cornea is nice and thick." hence im all set for it tomorrow! i wonder if there's anyone who's contemplating it too and wants to read a review? if so, i could do a little review for you guys. if not i'll probably skip it, i dont want anyone to fall asleep reading my wordy and overly scientific entry. my pupils are still kinda dilated from the assessment as i type this, perfect for the wide-eyed kitty cat look. only thing is, there's no one here to look at it. oh well. wednesday liberations tomorrow will have to wait my dears!

did you spot a little green blob behind me in my previous video?
here he is! i love mamaeshiba! TGIF everyone! ((:

i will be having an ettusais giveaway coming up! the prizes are reallyyy good. expect full sized items! keep my name on your address bar!

finally, have you missed my wednesday liberations? because i sure have, the past weeks were busy as hell. no time to even daydream about my liberations.

right now, i really want to stuff myself with pasta. i only had lunch and im starving!
what type of pasta do you like? i like tomato based ones. preferably spaghetti.




i love hugs. especially nice warm bear hugs on rainy days.




i will get my lasik done soon. buh-bye specs!

honest ade - an organic lemonade.

the other day, i was speaking to a friend about the rise in weddings you get invited to when you reach a certain age. women will tell you that the big 3-0 is the dreaded age, as all women have an "expiry date". if you arent seeing anyone and marriage isnt in the cards yet, its a cause to worry about. because we all dont want to be left on the shelf while the good ones get taken right? and, we have a biological clock that wouldnt stop ticking!

but hey, it seems like the men also have the same mentality, most are looking to settle down when they hit their 30s-late 30s. generally women prefer to date older men, of course there are individuals who have different views. im speaking for myself basically, i like a more matured man, 5-8 years older is ideal, because stability, security and sensibility comes with it (but ladies, im sure you can agree with me that matured men can be very childish too). so if you calculate, say a man who's 35 looking to settle down, the lady will be 27ish. see, men and women are on the same marriage-age wavelength after all.

so, before you settle down, you'll need to of course be dating for quite a bit already, 2-5 years perhaps. which means, a good time to be serious (less of a slut for females and less of a jerk for males), would be early to mid twenties for females and mid to late twenties for males.

if youre getting older and youre slowly seeing the "good ones" getting taken or reserved (chances are, if a guy/girl knows that he/she has got a gem, they wont let go, meaning the fishes in your ocean are depleting), its time to stop playing the field and know what you want.

from a female's point of view, what i can offer are some advices i think the men are making which causes them to be in this situation. i of course cant speak or offer advices to women cus we all have the same blindspots (sorry girls!).

1) most men will have in their hearts, "the one that got away". he can spend years kicking himself in the balls but she's not ever going to come back, ever. females hate indecisive men who just disappear or run away once a little commitment sets in cus he just doesnt know what he wants. if she's with someone else now, i suggest you kick yourself even more. if you drop something into a well, dont expect to fish it back up.

2) some men just like to play the field, to date as many girls as they want, hoping to find THE one. chances are if you go partying and tryng to meet people up, the girls you meet will have the same mentality as you, and you will be back to square one.

3) boys, those dating books/the system is nothing but a bunch of bullshit. ask her out only once and leave her hanging for more, dont express your feelings to her or risk being seen as emotionally weak? pfft. they teach you how to be jerks and cassanovas, great for those in point 2. women like men who are caring and respectful.

4) if you dont party much, youre a great guy (or so you think), but youre still stuck. perhaps you should join your friends for lunches, house parties, meet mutual friends etc. if your have great friends, it means your friends will probably have the same kind of great friends you prefer, since birds of the same feather flock together.

5) feel free to give the men out there some suggestions girls!

as for me, i like someone with style, smarts, sensitivity, a sense of humour and savior faire. i think ive found him already. (:

admit it, there are just some weekends you wake up with totally no agenda for the day at all. you dont feel like leaving your apartment at all yet you dont want to spend the day just random web surfing/sleeping it away.

well, how about pampering yourself with a home manicure/pedicure?
here are my tools for pretty nails:


dont these happy colours remind you of jelly beans?



ettusais vacance nails are back again this year with an adorable jellybean theme featuring 15 eye catching shades. 9 rainbow colours and 6 glitter polishes!


my favourite thing about these candy nail polishes is the scent! after they dry, the rainbow coloured ones have an amazing scent! there are 4 fruity flavours altogether, coconut, peach, raspberry and citrus. i found myself sniffing my nails subconsciously after that. haha!

if youre wrinkling up your nose in disgust, un-wrinkle it this instant! im not abusing solvents, these nail polishes are absolutely toluene-free! friendly to the environment and non-damaging to your health. more info about it HERE.


if you'd ask me to pick my top 3 shades in this whole range (pretty impossible! its like asking me to pick a favourite child!), i'd ask you to get all of them. HAHA. okay, IF i could only pick 3, my vote goes to:

F6 PINK GUAVA - a really unique pop of pink with slight shimmer that brightens your outfit.

14 SUGAR - different sized glitter polish! love this! use it on the tip to "re-new" chipped manicures or over solid colours.

F7 GRAPE - addictive raspberry scent! i like to use this with glitter on the top, its super cute!

and not forgetting the gel top coat which strengthens your nails, prevents chipping and gives you a shine like actual gel nails minnus the waiting time and UV light. this is my absolute top pick. ;)

before gel top coat - pretty and shiny!(F7 grape and 14 sugar)

after gel top coat - prettier, shinier, harder and longer-lasting.it really looks like salon done gel nails!

ps: you can still smell the yummy scent after applying the gel top coat. (:

click for more jellybean lovin'!

deep economic talk between Steve Jobs and Bill Gates

old "bintan resorts" shoot pictures

my fave picture of the lot! the 2 lovely makeup artists and the kids.

cute bikini ;)
no, they didnt go on this but i did!goodness, this ATV through the mud stained my shorts badly.

i love fawns!!
my first attempt to feed the elephant a banana!
i think its quite sad the elephants' feet are chained together. ):
looks like a hurricane just swept by
love the adorable leggy baby horses!

happy "family". hawhaw!
im in a mood for a holiday, with the sand and sea (minus the sun) after looking at these pictures janet and duane uploaded on fb. more beer please?